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What Choice Do You Have?

by M.C. Greene January 11, 2021
written by M.C. Greene
What Choice Do You Have?

It’s the beginning of a new year, and winter is in full swing here in Georgia, at least, what we call winter here in the South. All around town, the oak and maple trees are bare, their limbs reaching toward the winter sky, absent the luscious leaves and blooms that adorn them during the more amiable seasons. The nights are chilly, hosting brilliant stars that light up cold, clear skies. But even now, the days are mild, boasting sunshine warm enough to beckon us outdoors.

There is always a feeling of anticipation in the air during this time of year. The new year brings with it hope and anticipation for what is to come, and, often, a renewed sense of purpose. With so much that was so wrong with last year for so many, we now find ourselves making plans that will surely make this year better. For some of us, it’s a chance to repair and replace all that has been broken and missing. While for others, it’s a time to re envision where we’re going, to complete what we’ve started, or, perhaps, to start over anew.

But whatever direction we choose, this new year is a blank canvas waiting for us to provide the pallet with which we will paint our story. And for many of us, that means painting a whole new picture. The prospect of change can bring a feeling of excitement, but it can also be unsettling and, sometimes, mean making choices and decisions that aren’t easy to make.

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January 11, 2021
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The Price We Pay To Keep The Peace

by M.C. Greene May 8, 2020
written by M.C. Greene
When we give up our personal power to keep the peace

It’s a beautiful night here in Georgia. I’m sitting on my back porch, and the air is a little chilly, but the moon is full, and it’s amazing. Last month’s full, pink moon hid behind a curtain of gray clouds. But tonight, the sky is clear, and the moon is striking. Spring has been a fickle visitor here in the South for the past few weeks, occasionally stopping by with no intention of staying. But, at the moment, I’m in no hurry for the seasons to change. Tonight there is a sweet, little breeze floating through the trees and my new, furry friend and I are peaceful.

Last year, I published a post which generated more heartfelt response and introspection than any I’d published previously. In that post, I posed a question I’d been pondering for some time. That is, do we accept the love we think we deserve? Or, rather, do we settle for what we’re given knowing, all the while, we deserve more?

I wrote I believe, for many of us, it’s the latter.

Following that post, I received a score of emails which led to some truly genuine and eye-opening conversations. One of those emails came from Brad W. from Pittsburgh, PA.

So much of what Brad wrote resonated so deeply. In his first email to me, he said he’d been thinking about the question I’d posed, and this is what he said:

“It’s definitely the latter. I’m still trying to figure out how I let myself get there.” 

Sadly, this is a place where so many of us find ourselves. We look around one day and realize the life we’re living does not resemble the life we had envisioned.

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May 8, 2020
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How Do You Want To Feel?

by M.C. Greene April 3, 2020
written by M.C. Greene
How Do You Want To Feel

It’s seven a.m. here in Georgia, and I’m sitting on my back porch waiting for the sun. Over the last week, Spring has brought new life to the view from where I’m sitting and, with it, the promise that a new season is upon us. Slowly emerging buds have awakened into a parade of verdant hues stretching toward a sky that is, finally, more often blue than gray. And the cherry trees, hesitant only a few short weeks ago, are, at last, in full bloom. Everywhere you look, their delicate petals drift through the air as evidence of their long-awaited return. Already, I can tell today is going to be another amazing day.

Yesterday, The Greatest Kid On The Planet and I started the day with a late breakfast of pineapple pancakes, and then there was online learning to be done. Afterwards, we spent a good part of the afternoon throwing around a football. I couldn’t have asked for a better day with my kid. I know so many are struggling through the current situation, and I pray for anyone who finds themselves in hardship during this time. For me, I’m grateful The Greatest Kid and I are safe and well, and I love having him at home with me. I’m trying to savor every moment while I can.

These days, I stay away from the media. There is no CNN in our home, no local or world news. I’ve never been one to take more than a glance at the headlines, but, right now, I stay away from even those. Fear, panic, and blame seem to be the order of the day, and with so much of it circulating around us, I’m feeling, more than ever, the need to protect my inner peace.

This is a conversation I seem to be having with a great many people, especially over the last few weeks. In February, I published a post about the difference between hurt and hate and how we get to grace, and I wrote that we can choose not to take the actions of others personally, but, rather, give grace to those who act in a hateful or hurtful manner. I was surprised by the number of emails I received following that post and by the sentiment shared by so many who find themselves struggling with grace and, sometimes, forgiveness.

While most agree giving grace is best, both for ourselves and for others, it isn’t always easy to do. We would like to think we’re above it all, but we are not immune to the words and wiles of other people and to all that is going on around us.

So, at a time when so many, it seems, are hell bent on spreading anger and hatefulness, and with so much negativity coming at us from every direction, how do we guard ourselves against it?

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April 3, 2020
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Being Well

Hurt And Hate And How We Get To Grace

by M.C. Greene February 18, 2020
written by M.C. Greene
From Hate and Hurt to Grace

I never grow tired of how quickly things can change here in the South. Over the last few weeks, we’ve skipped back and forth between weather warm enough to call out the cherry blossoms and an unexpected blizzard that hung around long enough to enjoy seeing snow on the ground for a day. So far, this new year, The Greatest Kid On The Planet and I have celebrated both of our birthdays and had the best time ever (we say that every year), and I got to watch in awe and wonder as The Greatest Kid officially became a teenager.

It seems there is never any shortage of reasons to celebrate, and, one day last week, The Greatest Kid On The Planet came home from school and informed me that Friday, February 14, was Valentine’s Day. This, of course, was something I already knew, but I was curious about the way he said it.

“Why,” he asked, “do we have to have a day to remind people to be nice to each other?”

Ah, yes. What a great question. It should be an easy thing to do, shouldn’t it? Being kind to one another?

These are conversations The Greatest Kid and I have often, and I, again, took a moment to say all of the things I wanted him to hear. That we should treat others the way we want to be treated, and it’s important to show love and kindness to everyone. And maybe certain days of the year help us remember something that is often forgotten. Because, unfortunately, the world isn’t always what we would like it to be, and we will find that, sometimes, people aren’t always kind.

Then The Greatest Kid said, “I ignore those people because they are just angry at themselves,” and I was struck by how easily he said it.

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February 18, 2020
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